There has been a small group of individuals who have infused profound wisdom into my life's journey. Two of those individuals are Gary and Nancy Walter. And specifically, for over 10 years, Gary has walked along side me to offer nuggets of truth, wisdom, feedback, and strategic personalized growth tracks. He has been a major influence towards joy/passion/gifting/vocation discovery through living out my faith in my work.
Four things about this relationship:
- Intentionality. I initially took the initiative to meet with Gary to soak in his wisdom and experience. With his acceptance, I have eagerly sought advice in difficult situations and life transitions. Gary is a busy guy and took perseverance on my part to stay in contact and schedule future meetings or phone calls.
- Patience. I had to have confidence that when he said no at certain points it wasn't because he didn't want to meet with me, it was because he didn't have time...at that time. I had to have patience. In time he made time and when he had time he actively listened.
- Reciprocity. I have offered my time to others as they seek me out for advice just as Gary has taken time for me. And currently, we serve on the Executive Board of the Covenant Denomination together.
- Thankfulness. I am ever grateful for Gary's leadership and wisdom he has poured into my life.
My life's journey has been positively influenced by Gary and Nancy. Just as Gary has on my life, I hope to leave evidence in other people's lives (many lives) that I was there and made a positive influence.
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